Redefining Widowhood

Welcome to Redefining Widowhood.

My name is Carmen Andrea Harris.

I am the founder of Redefining Widowhood, by leading of Holy Spirit.

Redefining Widowhood is a ministry, mentoring, & counseling community that teaches Christian widows how to grieve, heal, and live after loss.

Our foundational scripture is Isaiah 61:1-3.

I started this walk, journey, and ministry in March 2019 on YouTube, three months shy of my late husband’s transition into Heaven.

At the time, I had no idea what God was doing in and through me, let alone that this was a ministry.

Much has happened since that first YouTube video.

Now, Redefining Widowhood is in a fresh new season.

I have new grace, wisdom, and insight to serve those connected to Redefining Widowhood.

To your healing, restoration, & joy!

Carmen Andrea Harris, M.A.T., GC-C

Certified Life Coach

Inner Healing Certified

Master of Arts, Teaching

Certified Grief Counselor

Mentoring & Counseling

Grief doesn’t always look like tears.

Sometimes, it looks like emotional numbness, silent suffering, or pretending everything’s fine while falling apart on the inside.

As a Widow Mentor & Certified Grief Counselor, I walk with women of faith through the mental, emotional, and spiritual process of healing after loss and life transition.

I help you go from silent grief to lasting joy through Spirit-led mentoring and counseling.

This isn’t just encouragement.

This is transformation — rooted in Biblical truth, emotional safety, and deep inner work.

Take the first step by scheduling a consultation or selecting a program package below.

A Chapter in My Story

On December 16, 2018, less than 24-hours after I took my husband to the hospital for a sickle cell crisis, he unexpectedly died.

He left myself and our daughters, who were ages 4 and 7 at the time, to pick up the pieces.

The day he died, I had $500 to my name, of which I found in his wallet when I collected his belongings from the hospital.

The day after his death, there was an eviction notice placed on our apartment door.

Not only did I have to plan a funeral, but, I had less than 30 days to figure out where my children and I would live.

Before the 30 days was up, the only vehicle that we had was repossessed.

“Major life transitions following sudden death” was definitely the title of the season I had entered into.

As I begin to figure out my mess of a life, I started looking for communities and safe spaces that could help me.

I desperately needed a person, space, or community that understood sudden widowhood, my range of emotions, and also my desire to LIVE again - not simply exist - in spite of ALL that I had been through.

I never found that space or community that had exactly what I needed.

Either they encouraged the idea that life was over because of widowhood.

Or they acted as if you could just move “on” like you never experienced a life altering loss.

So what do you do when you can’t find the exact space or community that you need?

You create it yourself!

Or at least that’s what I did.

That is exactly how “Redefining Widowhood” was created.

I knew if it was exactly what I needed, then it was exactly what other wives - who suddenly became widows - needed as well.

On that note, I’m sorry that you’re here but glad to have you.

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Carmen Andrea Harris, M.A.T., GC-C

Founder, Redefining Widowhood